of, sweden showed off her green credentials as she dazzled in an emerald frock at a WaterAid event. Boredom, lack of balls, and overall disappointment are contributing factors. Please however comment on something more constructive. Women come to see themselves as if through a lens, as if through the eyes of someone else, after a lifetime of exposure to media that teach them to conceive of themselves in such a way. Please dont comment that Im stereotyping and stereotyping sucks, wah wah wah. Ive suffered through reading, deleting, and even responding to a lot of comments that center on the idea that some women choose to be involved in the making of porn, that some women like to watch porn, that some women like to be treated like. Speakers will include Jan Eliasson, former deputy secretary general of the UN and ambassador of WaterAid; Bethlehem Mengistu, Head of WaterAid Ethiopia; and actress and WaterAid ambassador Sofia Helin. Swedish men: Are very good listeners, are quiet and shy, help doing house work. Women get the message from a very young age that their value lies in whether they are attractive to men. In fact, Id say that seeing beyond such systematic and forceful conditioning is the big leap, which is why there are so many sex -positive feminists and women who use and defend the use of porn, and so few outspoken anti-porn feminists. If you invite someone for dinner, then you could at least pay for it! It might not be for some people. Or make a move on him? These outside influences are so strong that they can completely transform female (not to mention male, but Im tired of talking about men) sexuality into something vastly different from female sexuality in its natural state.